So you made the decision to end it with your girlfriend, but after some thought you’re reconsidering and finding yourself thinking, “I broke up with my girlfriend but I want her back, how can I get her to change her mind and get back with me?”
To help you get her back, I first need to know why you dumped her (Note: If SHE ended it, read this article of mine instead.) I gotta know this because it will determine our approach to getting her back. So…did you dump her because:
She cheated on you
In this situation, she had already checked out of the relationship before you dumped her. Sure, officially it’s you who dumped her, but in reality, she pretty much left you first (if she still wanted to be with you, she would never have cheated).
If you want her back, you should treat this situation as if she ended it – because the techniques and tactics that you will need to get her back are the same ones needed by guys who got dumped by their girlfriends. I wrote a Guide to getting a girl back which is perfect for your situation.
Also see my other post: Should I dump my girlfriend for cheating on me?
You got bored of her, or you wanted your freedom to see other girls
In this situation, she probably still has very strong feelings for you, and getting her back perhaps wouldn’t take much work. A phone call in which you ask her how she’s doing and then go on to have a fun conversation with her, just like you guys did in the past, would probably be enough to get her to meet you for a drink. And from there it’d be easy, BUT…
If you dumped her once before because you got fed up in the relationship, then there is every chance that it’ll happen again. And then she’ll get hurt, again. Be honest with yourself here: Does your gut feeling tell you that eventually, you might get bored again if in a relationship with her?
If there’s even the hint of a yes, consider that as she’s a good girl with a good heart, she deserves not to be hurt by you again. In this case you should stay away from her. Don’t be selfish when someone else stands to lose so badly as a result.
If it’s sex you’re looking for and you see your ex as an easy target, then you’re being a coward and a pussy. You can get sex from other girls who’s hearts aren’t invested in you – you’ll just have to push your comfort zone to do it. Better to work a little harder to get sex from other chicks, than to have it put on a plate by your ex and hurt her badly in the process. Come on man, you don’t want to hurt her again.
On the other hand, if you believe you’re matured and are ready for commitment to one girl (and you’re sure you want that girl to be your ex), then by all means, call her. If she still loves you, she won’t make it difficult.
You or your ex moved far away
If you dumped her because of geographic distance, then it should be as simple as one of you moving to the place where the other one lives, and then calling her. No need for any special tactics here because if distance was the only problem, then her feelings for you are probably still there and so she’ll make it easy.
Read my article on resuming a relationship after you broke up because of distance.
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